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3 Reasons Why HNW Individuals Need HNW Attorneys for Their Contested Divorce

  • By Daniel R. Gold
  • 11 Mar, 2020

Introduction
HNW is High Net Worth. Many definitions of High Net Worth Individuals can be found, but a reasonably neutral meaning is from “Investopedia.com.”

  • A high-net-worth individual (HNWI) is somebody with around $1 million in liquid financial assets.
  • HNWIs are in high demand by private wealth managers. The more money a person has, the more work it takes to maintain and preserve those assets.
  • The United States had the most HNWIs in the world at more than 5.28 million in 2017, according to this site.

For the record, an “Ultra High Net Worth Individual (UHNWI) has in excess of $30 million in investable assets. “UHNWIs comprise the wealthiest people in the world and control a disproportionate amount of global wealth. Although they constitute only .003% of the world’s total population, they hold approximately 13% of the world's total wealth. Ultra-high net worth is generally quoted in terms of liquid assets over a certain figure, but the exact amount differs by financial institution and region.”[1]

The Uncontested Divorce
HNWIs and UHNWIs are not immune to divorce. In a perfect world, every divorce would be amicable and uncontested. One party files for the divorce. The other party accepts, the courts process the paperwork with appropriate fees paid, and it’s done. Voilà.  Both parties get what they want. The children and pets go with the spouse of choice, and everyone agrees on who’s paying for what. Because high net worth divorces are usually not simple, we see that there are at least three reasons you need an HNW family attorney to handle these cases.

 The Contested HNW Divorce
(And the 3 Three Reasons for HNW Attorneys)

Surprisingly, of the three reasons that HNW individuals need an HNW attorney, it’s not always about their HNW.

1.   Child support and spousal/partner support (alimony) choices are more difficult the more there is at stake.

2.   The disparity between the “higher earner” and the “stay-at-home” person (without even addressing genders these days) often makes the discussion and resolution stickier and more heated.

3.   Emotions run high, and it’s not about the money.

Child Support and Spousal/Partner Support
This is a hard one. We suggest knowing some of the laws before you call your attorney. There are several places to look, but if you’re in California, you might start with this Orange County Superior Court website, which also covers medical issues, education, and a myriad of other questions that relate to child support. Do your homework on this website for Spousal/Partner support. It’s not a surprise that expectations for who is responsible for the upkeep of two separate homes become muddier the more money there is to divide.

Disparity Between Higher and Lower Earner in the Family
One party, generally the higher earner, has a stronger tie to the assets. Objectivity is difficult. Therefore, HNW attorneys help by including CPAs, CFPs (Certified Financial Planners), and other specialized agents (e.g., real estate appraisers, art and jewelry experts, business valuation professionals) where the HNW person owns many different classes of items. The goal is that each party to the divorce has a strong sense of fairness as the proceedings ensue.

It’s Not About the Money
A really good HNW attorney will not assume that the HNW person needs to spend a lot of their HNW on attorney fees. People with HNW are in the end, just people. Concerned HNW attorneys understand the emotional wreckage of a divorce, and try to help the couple wade through the financial sewage while preserving the feelings of the kids, and the sisters and brothers, moms and dads, (the kids’ aunts and uncles and grandparents’) without adding more fees than necessary. Less is more. In fact, by researching the forms ahead of time, even HNW folks can have context and better questions for their first meetings with their attorneys.

Conclusion:
High net worth individuals may have liquid assets well above $1 million, and their divorces may be more complicated financially. But the most important side of the situation is how the people involved fare during and after the divorce. Money issues are always messy. More money makes it messier, but we recommend researching the laws in your state and county to see where to start. Indeed, HNW attorneys might be best for HNW individuals, but the good ones will try to help you preserve as much of your assets as possible. Please let us know if we can help.

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Disclaimer:

This information outlines a few of the concepts that surround high net worth individuals as they face divorce. It is not intended to be, nor should it be construed as legal advice for any particular situation. Please contact your attorney for more information.

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Author: Daniel R. Gold., Esq.

Mr. Gold was admitted to the State Bar of California and the United States District Court in 1993. Mr. Gold leads the family law practice at TLD Law and is certified by the State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization as a family law specialist. At this time, there are only approximately 5% out of 200,000 attorneys practicing state wide, certified to be specialists.


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